Contrary to popular belief, a man’s love isn’t measured by how much money he spends on you. That notion is fundamentally flawed—and here’s why.
The only woman a man will willingly spend on purely out of love is his mother. For every other woman—be it a girlfriend, wife, or partner—financial generosity is driven by something deeper: peace of mind.
Men do not spend money simply because they’re in love. They invest where they feel calm, respected, and free from stress. Peace opens a man's wallet—not love alone.
This is why slay queens often attract lavish spending. They're detached emotionally, bring minimal conflict, and create a stress-free environment. Their appeal isn’t rooted in deep emotional bonds, but in the absence of demands.
In contrast, a wife or long-term partner often finds herself burdened with the realities of life—rent, school fees, household responsibilities. Naturally, this emotional and financial pressure can create friction. Overwhelmed, some men retreat—to where there’s silence, not screaming. And in that silence, they spend.
The hard truth? Men finance their peace, not their problems. This is why many baby mamas find themselves on the losing end financially—not because they’re less loved, but because the emotional stress outweighs the serenity.
It’s deeper than love—it’s about emotional economy.
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