You Have To Remember That Nobody In This World Can Give You What They Themselves Don’t Have. If Your Partner Doesn’t Have Peace Inside Them. There’s No Way That They’ll Give You Any Kind Of Peace. Same Goes For Love. Human Beings Are Not God. We Can’t Create Out Of Nothing. We Can Only Give You What Is Already There. Too Many Of You Are Looking For Love In Places Where There Is None. Looking For Peace In Places Where There’s Chaos. Trying To Fix People Who Are Not Even Aware That They Are Broken
energy
When a child dislikes someone, their instincts prompt them to shy away, resist touch, or even cry when that person approaches. This reaction comes from their purity, giving them sharper discernment—they can sense negativity without a word being exchanged.
Adults, on the other hand, may recognize these signals but often doubt their intuitions, choosing to engage with toxic individuals. It’s only after painful experiences that they reflect on the red flags they ignored, realizing the truth that was evident all along.
People àre Different
As People We Are Not The Same. There Are People Who Like Order In Their Life. They Wake Up At A Specific Time. Eat At A Specific Time. Go Out & Return At A Specific Time. At The Same Time. There Are People Who Don’t Want Order. They Are Walking In The Streets At Midnight. They Don’t Want Rules. They Don’t Want Order. They Will Knock At The Window At 3am & Ask You To Open The Door. People Like This Feel Like They Can’t Breathe In A House With Rules. They Don’t Like Locked Gates. Locked Doors. They Want To Enter & Leave At Any Time. Sometimes They Forget To Lock & Get Surprised When They Are Questioned. There Are People Like This. People Who Don’t See The Difference Between Day & Night. To Them It’s The Same Thing. Even After Getting Robbed. They Return To The Night Life, Almost As If. Nothing Happened
Realistic Thinking
In this image, I was telling my brother a story, Story ⬇️⬇️⬇️
I Once Had A Conversation With A Girl I Was Interested In (At The Time) While We Were Talking. She Was Telling Me About Her Ex & The Good Things He Did For Her. At The Same Time, She Was Telling Me (A Stranger) About His Secrets & Failures.
So Me Being Me. I Realize That I Am Not A Special Person. If This Girl Can Throw Mud On The Name Of The Same Man That Took Her Out Of A 2-bedroom House & Rented An Apartment For Her. The Same Man Who Was Helping Her Further Her Studies & Had Plans To Marry Her. Obviously, Nothing I Do Will Protect Me From The Same Outcome.
I Don’t Look At Women & Think She Will Be Different With Me) That’s Not Realistic Thinking. I Had Nothing To Offer Her (At The Time) & Even If I Did. I’m A Student Of Reality. While You Are Laughing At Your Girlfriend Tearing Her Ex Down. Prepare For The Day She Does The Same To You. Women (& People In General) Repeat Their Past Behaviours.
That’s Why An Abusive Man Is Abusive No Matter Who He Dates. It’s Not About The Other Person. Character Is About The Situation Inside A Person’s Head. I Ran Away From That Girl. Not Because I Didn’t Want Her But Because She Was Naturally Ungrateful. People Who Speak Negatively About The Hand That Feeds Them Cannot Be Trusted.
National ID
URGENT NOTICE
Whenever you do photocopy of your national
valid ID, please open your eyes and don't
leave any photocopy behind, even spoilt
copies. Because, when you leave them, they
will now use your details to register sim
cards and sell to criminals for their criminal
activities. Please notify family and friends to
take note of this. People are in real trouble
for this little act of carelessness. Brothers
and sisters, let us be careful. Share to your
loved ones. Thank you!
In Life
In life, you’ll encounter individuals whose intentions vary—some engage with you based solely on transactional value, drawn to what you can offer, while others are opportunists who seek to benefit from your presence without offering reciprocity. Then there are exploitative personalities who use you purely for your resources, whether emotional, financial, or social, lacking any true regard for your well-being. In contrast, a rare few will value you for your authentic self, not what you provide, and these are the ones who remain consistent through both prosperity and adversity. Developing emotional intelligence is crucial to distinguishing between these dynamics. Once you're aware of who’s genuine and who’s self-serving, it becomes imperative to emotionally detach and create healthy boundaries from those who pose a threat to your peace and growth. Prioritize and protect the sincere connections they are rare, but deeply valuable.
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